Welcome to the Affaircare Blog

I know some of you are here because you are having trouble in your marriage and you're looking for a lighthouse to guide you through the darkness of infidelity. You've found help. For more than ten years now I've been involved with helping couples recover after the storm of an affair. I offer Christian care and guidance, and I'll listen to you with compassion, whether you are the loyal spouse or the one who was disloyal and now you want to save your marriage.

We often hear people say, "If s/he ever cheated on me, I'd kick 'em to the curb!" but in real life, the breakdown of a marriage can have unexpected costs. There are heavy physical, emotional, mental, financial, and spiritual costs for divorce, and it's felt by everyone in the couples' lives: the spouses, their children, their immediate family, the extended family, employers and co-workers, friends, people in school and church--the devastation can be FAR REACHING. So it's wise to consider and reconsider forgiving yourself, forgiving your spouse and repairing the damage that's been done so you can build a new, stronger, more loving marriage! And that's why I'm here...to help you do just that.

I feel hopeful and confident that you *can* recover and that your marriage can be rescued from the storm, because I've helped so many people reconcile and grow. You'll find a lot of help on the website: www.affaircare.com, and if you'd like you can follow Affaircare on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/pages/Affaircare/343090165462) or on Twitter (http://www.twitter.com/Affaircare). But come here regularly--come often--and let's bring your marriage back to safe harbor.